In order to learn and grow, you must have the freedom to connectwith what you want and to disconnect from what you don'twant. No one can give you that freedom. It's your birthright as ahuman being. You don't need anyone's permission to decide whichconnections are best for you. It's up to you to take the initiative toconnect with what you want and to disconnect from what you don'twant. By consciously making connections that feel intuitively correctto you, you bring yourself into alignment with the principle of love.he's just not that into you